I cannot express how much I learned from my Italian teachers, Italian students, and Italian Family. They all taught me incredibly important lessons during my stay – I can never thank them all enough for the wonderful experience with so many wonderful lessons!
Lessons Learned from my Teachers:
It is important to always be aware of yourself as a teacher so that you understand your relationship with your students and what kind of dedications you have as a teacher. In Italy the students remain in their room throughout all the grades and teachers move around the school to the different classrooms. So, as an observer, during some of the days, I would notice that the same students acted differently depending on the teacher present. Depending on the teachers’ form of teaching, discipline, and relationship with the students the students would act accordingly. In short, it really isn’t the students but the teachers who are responsible what is happening in the classroom – including student behavior.
Teachers should set rules early in order to avoid chaos and issues that arise throughout the year that you, as a teacher, could easily avoid with set rules. And they should be simple so that they are easily understood and followed.
Always be willing to learn more about teaching, education, and your subject area. Antonella, the English teacher of the students I taught, was always willing to learn more about English from be and about the differences between British and American English. Also, when we had our English Language Learners meeting many teachers attended which shows their great desire to learn more about teaching native languages to non –native speakers. It is refreshing to see teachers, like I did in Italy, want to learn more about teaching!
Lessons Learned from my Students:
Be brave and bold! The students were always so willing to participate even though they were nervous to speak English in front of a native speaker. The very first day of meeting me they introduced themselves in English and their curiosity, bravery, and love only grew from there. They are fearless!
Many of my students were very smart in their studies but they were even smarter in doing unproductive, doing bad things like cheating, copying, etc. – like any other student their age in America. So, as a teacher it is important to really pay attention to what is happening in your classroom.
Always do your best as a teacher to engage your students with the information you need to teach and their interests – that is how you will become invested, interested in what you are teaching and they will, you know, learn!
Lessons Learned from my Italian Family:
Be patient and go with the flow as often as you can! Many times I did not know how to get somewhere, where I was going, what I was doing, what was being said – but, I just gave in and let someone else be in control and did not worry about what was happening…believe it or not, I – Crystal Ann Yakel, went with the flow! And I tried so many new things and did things that scared me, but I did them! I was more patient, more go with the flow, and brave – three things I would like to do more in my daily life.
The second lesson I really learned is one that I am so glad to have experienced. I am very busy and I give my time to many different things. Being with my Italian family has taught me that it is important to help others and give your time but it is also very important to really give your time to those who most need it, will appreciate it, and give your time to things that make you happy. My host family spent a lot of time with family, friends, and they gave time to themselves. So, I would like to say “no” to some things, not run myself down, and give more time to my family and friends! This lesson from my Italian host family was the most important lesson I learned while in Italy!
Thank you to everyone who made my trip so wonderful! Goodbye for now Italy, but do not worry - I will be back! Ciao!